i couldn't agree more. This did more for mainstream understanding of BDSM than anything else in the last 50 years. Not to say that Joe and Jane 6-Pack who see 50 Shades will have a deep understanding of BDSM, but they will at least have some exposure to the fundamentals of a BDSM relationship, and that the submissive gives themselves freely to the Dominant, and each party gains something from the relationship.